That said, Tinder isn't always about finding the best mate, but rather getting the most thorough overview of the options.
"It's not necessarily an app where the objective is meeting the person.
Whereas before a man just needed to be the best looking guy at work to get a date with a colleague, now he needed to be in the top 10% of all men to get a date with one of the women in his city.” This is the double-edged sword of online dating.
You have far more access to singles than ever before. Which means that there’s also far more COMPETITION.
• It took 2 months, 13 days for the most popular woman’s inbox to fill up.
.action_button.action_button:active.action_button:hover.action_button:focus.action_button:hover.action_button:focus .count.action_button:hover .count.action_button:focus .count:before.action_button:hover .count:before.u-margin-left--sm.u-flex.u-flex-auto.u-flex-none.bullet. It made it easier to get laid because of the extra validation."But the numbers game, and the sheer fact that so many men are on Tinder, might indicate why so many women report Tinder fatigue — they're bombarded with many more matches and messages than men are.As Robinson Meyer of the , "If Tinderbox is unsettling, it's because it takes that commodification to the next level — treating people not just as data entries within Tinder but as piles of data themselves." And the human commodification inherent to Tinder can have particular impact on Tinder's women.But for men, with the main objective of simply mating, it pays to just attract any woman.Tellingly, time per Tinder session averages out to only 7.2 minutes for men, while women tend to swipe for 8.5 minutes at a time, the .